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Intrusive Thoughts vs. Overthinking: What’s Actually Happening in Your Mind

Intrusive Thoughts vs. Overthinking: What’s Actually Happening in Your Mind

Intrusive thoughts and overthinking can feel similar but are not the same. This article explains how trauma-related intrusive thoughts differ from rumination, why trying to suppress them often backfires, and how therapy support helps reduce their intensity and impact on daily life.

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Always Busy, Still Stuck? How Busyness Can Be a Trauma Avoidance Pattern

Always Busy, Still Stuck? How Busyness Can Be a Trauma Avoidance Pattern

Staying busy can look like success, but for many men it is a way to avoid difficult thoughts and feelings linked to trauma. This post explores how busyness becomes a coping strategy, the emotional cost of never slowing down, and how trauma therapy helps build real stability instead of constant distraction.

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New Year Anxiety: Why Fresh Starts Can Feel So Unsettling

New Year Anxiety: Why Fresh Starts Can Feel So Unsettling

January is often framed as a hopeful fresh start, but for many men it brings pressure, uncertainty, and anxiety. This post explains why new year anxiety happens, how stress and trauma can make fresh starts feel threatening, and practical ways to feel more grounded. It also explores how trauma-informed therapy support can help build emotional stability and self-trust at the start of the year.

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When Routine Changes Feel Bigger Than They Should: The Hidden Trauma Response
Trauma & PTSD, Stress & Emotional Regulation Brittany Shannon Trauma & PTSD, Stress & Emotional Regulation Brittany Shannon

When Routine Changes Feel Bigger Than They Should: The Hidden Trauma Response

Routine changes can feel bigger than they should, especially for men with a trauma history. When structure shifts, the nervous system may react with anxiety, irritability, shutdown, or overcontrol. This article explains the link between trauma and routine changes, offers practical regulation strategies, and explores how therapy support can help build flexibility and emotional safety during transitions.

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Holiday Loneliness: Why It Hits Harder This Time of Year and What Actually Helps
Relationships & Connection Brittany Shannon Relationships & Connection Brittany Shannon

Holiday Loneliness: Why It Hits Harder This Time of Year and What Actually Helps

The holidays often amplify loneliness through comparison, family dynamics, and emotional pressure. For men with trauma, loneliness can show up as withdrawal, irritability, or numbness. This post explores why holiday loneliness happens, how it affects mental health, and how evidence-based trauma therapy helps men feel more grounded and connected.

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How to Let Go, Set Boundaries, and Protect Your Mental Health This Holiday Season
Relationships & Connection Brittany Shannon Relationships & Connection Brittany Shannon

How to Let Go, Set Boundaries, and Protect Your Mental Health This Holiday Season

Holiday perfectionism creates stress, guilt, and emotional exhaustion, especially for men carrying trauma. Learn how to set boundaries, challenge unrealistic expectations, and protect your emotional health. This post explains why perfectionism develops, how it affects mental wellness, and how therapy or therapy intensives can help you enter the season feeling grounded and supported.

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Why You Feel the Need to Control Everything: The Hidden Trauma Connection
Trauma & PTSD, Guilt & Shame Brittany Shannon Trauma & PTSD, Guilt & Shame Brittany Shannon

Why You Feel the Need to Control Everything: The Hidden Trauma Connection

Control can feel like strength, but for many men it is a response to past trauma. This post explains why the need to control everything develops, how it becomes exhausting and isolating, and how evidence based trauma therapy helps you feel safer and more grounded so you can let go of rigid control and actually feel in charge of your life.

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